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We provide support to schools to create safe spaces and have honest conversations about LGBTQI+ issues.
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We assist businesses with sensitivity training, LGBTQI+ workshops, talks and seminars.
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LGBTQ+ community

We provide peer counselling, support group meetings, a helpline, interventions and more.
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Help us to make schools safer for LGBTI kids & youth. Bullying is founded on hate of those who are different, and that hate comes from a place of ignorance, misinformation, myths and negative stereotypes. So let's fix that. Let's give all students the research-based and science-based information that they need. Let's help them adopt the globally accepted, gender affirming and inclusive attitudes that are required to make schools safe spaces of learning for all our children.

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Let's meet

Our monthly meetings are safe spaces for LGBTI youth to come and learn more about themselves, and what it truly means to be gender diverse or of different sexual orientations.


Unfortunately most youth have a skewed view of what they have been told about “the gay lifestyle”, along with many other misconceptions. We replace the misinformation with research-based, scientific findings that are globally accepted.

We encourage the youth to bring their parents and their families to join us and learn the truths and facts behind sexual orientation and gender identity in an informal environment. 


Transgender events

Transgender events are sorely lacking in KZN, and access to health is also a barrier for transgender folk. To address this void, we have created the Transgender Picnic, a picnic held annually in the Botanical Gardens in Durban.

This aims to allow transgender persons to spend time together, and even bring along their families and friends. It is the only event of its kind in South Africa.


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